Dating adventures

 My aim is to find a potential life partner and take you along for the ride and to do that I have made a list of qualities that I am seeking, and so here we go. (these are qualities I have and continue to cultivate in myself) 

• Health-focused ( Is or is in the process of becoming healthy and addiction-free) 

• Goal orientated 

• Congruent (say what you do and do what you say)

• Consistent (putting a consistent effort into the relationship, and follows through)

• Self-aware (does deep inner work, journaling, art therapy)

• Communications skills (is able to clearly and respectfully communicate, wants, needs and desires)

• Self-discipline ( will stick to a routine and be reliable)

• Creativity ( Is focused on creative solutions to issues and has a passion for creativity)

• Grounded (Is practical and pragmatic)

• Willingness to learn ( New skills that support the growth of the relationship)

• Reflect rather than project ( Is willing to be self-reflective and own their issues, rather than projecting those issues on me)

• Similar values and beliefs (some mentioned above) 

Now I am sure that I will expand on that list and that list has come from having contact with women in one way or another lacking those qualities.

To increase my chances of success I have a paid membership with spiritualsingles.com and I am mostly making contact with women off of that site.

Some reply and some don’t and I am swapping in between contacting women who have favourited my profile and or looked at my profile, (lead hunting) and then sometimes I have done a search and contacted women who have an interesting profile with at least some of my list (cold calling).

So I will be documenting my dating adventures for you dear reader, and feel free to ask me any questions that come to you.